When your man's ex is pregnant

You need to step back and let him decide what he needs to do.
He may decide to get married and give the kid a chance at a normal family. May be to to re-connect with ex?

YET again,

You and he both need to come to this realization:

• That the child is responsibility, but the ex isn't.
• If the child does turn out to be his and she's emotionally unable to let him go, that rests on her, not you or him.
• As long as he can realize that as well, you shouldn't have any problems.
• He has to stop being abuses by an unstable ex-girlfriend.

Nthabi