The BJ bag, R220 

Consisting of champagne to set the mood, a beaded penis ring for him to wear while you’re giving him fellatio, a sexy satin sash so you can tie him up or blindfold him, a flavoured lube to bring some deliciousness to the bedroom and informative tips and tricks.

Available from The Bedroom, Parkhurst 

Share Vibrating Penis Ring, R1 200

This very sexy couple’s toy is made of safe silicone, making it easy to clean and stretch. Simply slip the stretchy penis ring around your man’s member and enjoy the vibrations as you engage in intercourse. It has seven vibration patterns, so you are guaranteed pleasure.

Available from Lola Montez, Morningside 

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Available from Adam & Eve for R236, these handcuffs come in metallic red or black. They make that “clanky” sound when you put them on and are easily adjustable for different ankle and wrist sizes.